quinta-feira, 25 de fevereiro de 2016

I´m a slut... but I´m not...



Ontem me bateu uma excitação e um alívio quando li o texto abaixo. Ele me representa demais... não que eu seja exatamente como está descrito ali, mas é uma visão do que almejo "poder ser"...


I´m a slut, but I´m not...

- Insecure. We’re not using others to validate who we are. We don’t have low self-esteem. We’re secure in our abilities and desires.

- Standardless. Being a slut doesn’t mean we don’t have standards. We don’t drop our pants for anyone who asks. We are discerning.

- Have “daddy issues”. We had plenty of love growing up. We’re not using sex as a substitute for parental love or to fill any hole in our lives.

- Loose. Learn anatomy and how the human body works... That isn’t a thing.

- Incapable of being monogamous. We’re not afraid of commitment or incapable of being exclusive. We don’t toss people aside for more casual flings. We’re capable or recognizing when someone special comes a long. [huummm... that´s a huuuuuge issue...]

- A sex addict. We’re not addicted. We are in control. Sex is not negatively affecting our lives or our relationships. It’s only enhancing our wellbeing.

- Using others. We aren’t taking advantage of others or manipulating them for sexual gains. We’re not liars. We don’t deceive. We make sure everyone we’re intimate with is on the same page as we are.

- Letting others use us. We don’t let others take advantage of us. We know how to say “No,” and we’re not afraid to reject you.

- Unsafe. We are safe. We use safe words. We use condoms. We care about consent and feeling comfortable.

- Manic. We’re not simply amid a manic episode and going on a sex spree.

So what are we? We want to explore various different types of connections, and understand that sex is just one, among many ways, to have a connection with someone else. We prioritize pleasure without being hedonists. We know what we want isn’t amoral and aren’t afraid to get it. We’re not going to let societal norms and America’s puritanical roots affect our wellbeing.

We’re proud sluts, and we're not ashamed.



Texto disponível em http://www.pride.com/gay/2016/2/24/im-slut-im-not  

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